It doesn't matter whether the audience is 3 or 30,000. Some people just have difficulty standing up in front of a group. Some use a crutch, a "mask" to hide behind. That way, the person facing the audience is not them, but the character created for that purpose.
It doesn't matter whether the mask is serious or funny, whether it's made of fabric or papier mâché, or just a new surface created with make-up. A mask allows an actor to step onto the stage as someone else, maybe someone terrible, maybe someone crazy, but someone else.
So here's today's big idea:
Every presentation is a performance.
Yes! When you step onto the stage, or to the front of the room, you give a performance. You may not be singing, dancing, or reciting a dramatic monologue, but you WILL be performing.
This didn't scare you when you were young. At six, you could take on a character with no preparation, making up dialogue along the way—pure improvisation, no script, not even a plot line. Neither you nor your friends worried about where the scene went.
As a business presenter, however, you need a way to put aside the fear, until the fear reduces to 5 minutes of nerves that you can control.
At this point in my various careers, I have spent more than 15,000 hours on stage as an actor and cabaret singer, and given more than 100 presentations to professional and other groups.
As a cabaret singer, my largest audience has probably been around 200. I have no fear of singing for any audience as long as my words are memorized.
As an actor, my largest audience has been more than 3,200. I still get nervous for a few minutes before I step on stage. But once my first line is said, I'm fine.
As a business presenter, my largest audience has been around 125. Since I now only present on topics I know, I am more likely to get nervous after the presentation as we go into the Q&A portion, because I have no idea what will be asked; I may have to address something about which I've written extensively or something about which I have given no thought.
The key in business presentations is to be honest. In my early years, when I got more than just nervous, I created a persona that was exactly like me (keeping it honest) but who was comfortable in front of a group. That one small change allowed me to get up and speak. It could easily work for you, too.
Make a list of the characteristics that define you. Then duplicate the list. At the bottom of the first, add the bullet, "uncomfortable in front of an audience." At the bottom of the second, add the bullet, "comfortable in front of an audience." Then throw the first list in the trash and post the second where you will see it every day. And make sure to look at it when you're preparing a presentation.
Because every presentation is a performance, I prepare as I would for an acting job. I find a relatively private place and do a quick physical warm-up, focusing on my ankles and knees so my movements are smooth and I'm balanced on my feet. And I greet people as the enter to warm up my voice and establish a personal link with some audience members before I start.
If you have a team that needs coaching for an upcoming presentation, or you want to give your frequent presenters some general help and encouragement, please give me a call at 559-901-9596 and let's talk about how I can help.